I have the right, I have the freedom.....

My rights, my freedom.
My point of view and way of believing.
My honor, my pride.
My culture and hidden hide.
                                       -Arfah Upade

You read it right. We all have the freedom, the freedom to do some thing, the freedom to do so much.

My freedom,
my life.... <3 <3

Each and every one of us were born with a cause, we were born with a......well, let's say, with a mission, a
mission to change the world.

How?  Well, that's your choice.
There's a verse in the story of "The Count of Monte Cristo" that says:

Overturn the world, change it's character, yield to mad ideas, be even a criminal---but live!!!

This quote is marvelous! Turn over the world, view it with another view or even with your own view. Change the way it does things. Give out all those mad ideas that you have within you. Show them to the world, BUT JUST LIVE YOUR LIFE!!!!

Freedom was given to you right from the start. It just matters if we know that we have freedom or not. Life's foremost right is freedom. Without freedom your life can never be called life.

Always try to enjoy the freedom life
 gives you without hesitating.

However, always remember, even though you need freedom in your life, try to make sure you're not getting much more freedom than necessary.
Like everything has a limit, even freedom has a limit.
Always try to enjoy the freedom life gives you without hesitating.

I have seen, heard and talked to people complaining about their freedom saying that I'm not allowed to this or I couldn't go there on that day because my parents didn't allow me, this not fair, I don't have any freedom, etc, etc.....
Complaining about small issues ain't right.

You've got the freedom to do so many things. It's your life. Your freedom can be small or big. For example, small freedom such as eating ice cream, dancing or opening your account in a social website, etc, etc.
Big examples such as, travelling the world, going out alone, making your own decisions, choosing the career that you wanna do, not getting the chance of wearing the clothes that they want and doing stuff that you never imagined, etc, etc....

Some people are restricted to eat ice cream, dance, sing or other activities! WOW! Some people don't even have the freedom to put their thoughts in between concerning matters or chose their dream profession. Many can't even step out of the house alone or even travel with others for a field trip or picnic or somewhere around the world.....

I mean there are so many people out there that don't even get the freedom that you have.
Once my friend told me," Arfah, I really don't have any freedom yaar (friend) because my parents didn't send me to her (not mentioning any names) house. This isn't fair. I am grown up! I should have my freedom! I can handle my life!"

What did I do? Well, of course, I gave her a long lecture telling her that there are people out there who have to be inside the house or just meet their friends in public.
The most common complaint I've heard is that "we don't get to go on sleepovers"
I mean, seriously people! Some don't even get to go to their
friends house and you're crying over a little sleepover.

and others expect more from
 how much they have......

Freedom is something that we all get. It's just in what quantity we get it or it might just be that we all get
equal freedom, but probably some don't have the strength or right to use it and others expect more from how much they have......

LOVE YOUR FREEDOM. BY LOVING IT, YOU'RE LOVING YOUR LIFE...

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Please wait. Ok, I'm waiting and waiting and waiting.....how much do I have to wait???

Patience....
Such simple word with such a huge meaning.

Patience is a virtue that everyone needs to have.
It's a necessity for everyone. Every life in other words needs patience.
You must have heard people saying that patience and hard work is the key to success. It's not false.

But patience ain't easy to get my friend.....
A lot of hard work is needed also to get patience.  It might take a lot of time to deserve what you want but it always leads to something beautiful, something unimaginable. It takes a lot of hope, a lot of courage, a lot of self-respect and a belief in yourself saying that, "Yes, I'll wait. I'll wait till I get what I want. I'll wait till it happens. Yes, I believe myself. I'll wait." By patience what can you not get!
For example, you're writing a book. you can get the best ideas only when you're patient.

There are many people in this world that are quite impatient. Trying to get their words through, doing everything in a fuss, doing whatever it takes to put the work in action and get the work done.
Yes, it is good to get the work done in time, BUT NOT IN FUSS. It is good to get your words through, BUT NOT BY FORCE. Doing things to get your work done, BUT NOT BY DOING WRONG AND CAUSING INJUSTICE.

There is always other things that you can do while you're waiting. For example, a most comman example, your net is working slow and something is loading or downloading, until then you can hang out on another website, playing games, trying out quizzes, checking out news, and a lot more things.

However, waiting is not always as short as all of the above. Some have to wait for months, years and
sometimes even THEIR LIFE!
Some people even lose the things close to them in the process of waiting but eventually find success through the end. Every person who has patience will definitely, I say 100%, will get what they deserve. It serves them right. Always remember that never lose hope on waiting, or should I say patience, as you might receive your treat after a little bit of time, but you surely will receive it......

Always remember, the lord gives you what you want but takes time as he knows the right time to give it to you.
If you wanna know more about examples of true patience, than I suggest you read "The Count of Monte Cristo" by Alexandre Dumas. However, there is also a short version of this story published by Orient Blackswan.
You should see Edmond Dante's patience and regained hope.

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Oooh, I'm sorry. It's my habit.

Habit, a word that everyone knows.
It's a habit. One sentence probably everyone has said.

A habit something that everyone has. Habits are, well from my point of view, actions that probably describe our personalities. A habit can tell a lot about us. What kind of person we are, what do we like or dislike or even how we would or do take situations.

Habits can be tinee-tiny or they can be huge, putting an impact on the others around you. They can be bad and the can be good!
Habits may not come to you by you knowing..... They might come as slow as possible. THEY MIGHT COME AS A BIG BAD SHOCK..... Who knows?

But there are so many habits that we start or even end because of others!
Yes, because of others. How? Why? Well, I have seen some people, who end their habit because of others. To be honest, I am a person who laughs so loudly that it can be heard in the next room. I stopped laughing loudly because people use to shout at me for my laughter and even tease me..... But after a while I realized that, who are they to tell me. Yes, but remember that this is also true that don't let your habit irritate others or make them aggressive. I didn't stop laughing loudly but I reduced the amount of how much I use to laugh.

Many people start habits. Like for example, you like the habit of a girl or guy or a girl or a guy is quite popular in your area or school, college or anywhere else just because the way they act and you then make up your mind that you are now gonna take all their habits. Like wearing multiple rings on your finger, putting gel on your hair, coping their style of walking, The way they dress up, the way they talk, or anything else that you might think is their habit......

But you know what? You should be yourself..... Your habits are a part of you...... In other words, they're your second body.....
Now, what I'm also trying to say is that, your habits define you but remember bad habits RUIN YOU!
Bad habits are quite hard to leave but for the sake of your life and others that are close to you, leave it!

But before I continue writing, let me so tell you that bad habits do not have to be big and bad, they might

even be childish.......
So, really don't worry when I say about these bad habits.....

Every person has different-different  innate habits. I have the habit of wearing my watch on my right hand. As I said earlier habits don't really have to be big. Some habits are rare and some are quite comman.
It is person's responsibility to respect the habits of others.

Many people have unusual habits. Like wearing five to six bracelets on one hand, wearing their clothes upside down, collecting movie DVD's, putting on different bows, ties or clips that matches with the dresses they wear, buying paintings that sometimes don't even make sense, checking their pockets before and after leaving home, moving their hands a lot while talking , still sleeping with their cuddly toy, etc, and the most comman habit that I've seen is:

Putting up the pictures of the best moments in your life on your wall......

Always remember, your habits are one of the prime factors of your life. You can control your habits. Just know that you have the decision to accept them or not!

Remember: you don't need to change your habits for others, I MEAN GOOD HABITS, just try to keep them in such a way that others don't get disturbed. You know why? Because your habits are your second body, you don't need to change them for anyone......

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